When it comes to finding a real connection, many people think that it happens magically, with sparks flying and fireworks going off. However, this isn’t always the case. In fact, for most people, finding a real connection takes time, investment, and the right person.
The best place to find a real connection is by putting your expectations in check. Don’t wait for the magical Disney fireworks sparks moment – especially if you’re over 35 years old. Instead, focus on finding someone who you can have good conversation with and shares common interests. If you do this, you’re more likely to find a real connection with that person.
Finding the right person for you is different than finding the right person for your parents or grandparents. For them, it was all about looks and sparks. However, we now know that’s not real life. The real-life version of someone finishing your sentences can happen with time, investment, and with the right person. And that’s something worth waiting for!