We see it sometimes in matchmaking people are just,” this is what I’m ordering and you’re going to deliver on it”. They are not willing to be part of the process of improvement.
If you want someone who’s financially secure, financially literate… check-in on your own financial literacy. Do you need to work on that yourself so you can embody those things?
And then abundance breeds abundance. So then you can find someone who’s like that.
Often I’ll get, “okay, I want someone who’s super-fit”, but then no matter what their body shape looks like, they didn’t work out at all. I’m like, “well, actually, if someone’s a gym rat and at the gym, for five hours a night and you like watching Netflix, this is not going to go well.”
So you just have to work on the things that are important to you and then see that kind of come through in dating.