Pawn moves first

How to Move Things Along

Stop Swiping. Get Scouted.

What advice do you have for somebody who’s looking to advance a relationship organically?

A lot of times on dating apps, singles will say “Oh, I want the guy to make the first move”. Asking for a video chat or a phone call is not the first move. Hint to them that you’re interested in connecting and then they can take it from there.

But right now there are so many hurdles to jump through. I think you’re interested, like moving it along is totally fine. Like, go ahead and ask for a phone call or video date. There’s not really much. You can lose there.

Silver Bullet Swipe

You’re going into the online dating process with what I call the “Silver Bullet Swipe”. So that’s the one thing that you’re like, okay, I

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Why Are You Stopped?

Why Are You Stopped?

So why are you here? You’re single. You’re bummed. Let’s think about why you’re frustrated, why you’re stopped. That’s the biggest question, right? Why are

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