Pawn moves first

How to Move Things Along

Stop Swiping. Get Scouted.

What advice do you have for somebody who’s looking to advance a relationship organically?

A lot of times on dating apps, singles will say “Oh, I want the guy to make the first move”. Asking for a video chat or a phone call is not the first move. Hint to them that you’re interested in connecting and then they can take it from there.

But right now there are so many hurdles to jump through. I think you’re interested, like moving it along is totally fine. Like, go ahead and ask for a phone call or video date. There’s not really much. You can lose there.

What Does Love Look Like?

What Does Love Look Like?

Just a little invitation could make the biggest difference in connecting you with the love of your life. Quite literally. When you think about your

More »
Her Top 10 Wish List

Her Top 10 Wish List

Alisa Purifico: Talk to me, lady what’s going on? Member: The dating has been such a shit show. I can’t even these dudes, and I’m

More »
Relationship Roadmap

Relationship Roadmap

There’s a certain amount of work that YOU have to do on yourself. I connect with so many people who are just so “over’ dating,

More »