Pawn moves first

How to Move Things Along

Stop Swiping. Get Scouted.

What advice do you have for somebody who’s looking to advance a relationship organically?

A lot of times on dating apps, singles will say “Oh, I want the guy to make the first move”. Asking for a video chat or a phone call is not the first move. Hint to them that you’re interested in connecting and then they can take it from there.

But right now there are so many hurdles to jump through. I think you’re interested, like moving it along is totally fine. Like, go ahead and ask for a phone call or video date. There’s not really much. You can lose there.

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