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How to Know if Someone is IN to YOU

Stop Swiping. Get Scouted.

How do you know if somebody authentically is into you or, if they’re showing you the right signals or if it’s something else.

First is Intentionality. So if they’re really interested in you, they’re going to be asking you questions back. So if you’re asking all the questions and they’re answering, you can tell this from messaging on the app. If they’re not asking you anything or it’s nothing really in-depth or they use single words like “Yeah”, “no”, like they’re potentially not interested.

The second is Initiative. Are they trying to get you to a phone call or a virtual date or an in-person date? Or are we just in this pen pal dynamic?

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