I have a poll for the audience.
How many times have you been rejected? Romantically? And this question is going to be a little different, depending on if you are the asker outer… the wooer, or the woowee
- A) 0 to 10 times
- B) 10 to 100 times, or
- C) this is a mean question, but over 100.
And by the way, if you answer, C you have my instant respect, because if you’ve been rejected over a hundred times, that means you have put yourself out there that much more often than anybody else. I would rather talk to the guy or the gal who’s been rejected 500 times because they put themselves out there versus the person who’s only been rejected two times because they just came out of their house for the first time.
But I want to ask this question and I want you guys to be honest and let me know what your opinion is, be nice, obviously, but let me know what your opinion is in terms of how you even view that question, because… rejection and the dating space has so many levels from every way, shape or form.
People think they understand exactly what’s going on when really you don’t know anything that’s going on and vice versa. And it just becomes this very confusing unfulfilling process. When in fact we’re all still needing the end result, you still need the end result. You still want to be with somebody.
You don’t want to be alone. There’s no other choice. So let’s navigate through.