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Single Men in Tech
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Single Men in Tech

These tech guys, these “Geeks” they are very thoughtful. They know what they want. They go for it and they do their best When I

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Slow Burn Relationships
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The Slow Burn Relationship

If you meet somebody and instantaneously that chemistry is there, and it’s lust and you guys are just like, can’t you keep each other’s hands

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Setting Expectations in Dating
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Communicating Expectations

What would you say to women, what should they expect from a guy when they’re talking to somebody new? Obviously there’s some kind of reciprocity

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Listening is Sexy
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Listening is Sexy

The sexiest thing a guy can do is listen and not just listen to like check it off, but listen and apply because it shows

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Defining What Matters

Don’t confuse the things that are shiny, that distract you from the things that really matter to the things that actually do matter. There are

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Top Online Dating Mistakes

Don’t tell us what you don’t want. No, thanks. I don’t need to know what you don’t want. It’s funny. When we got these apps,

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It’s Not Always Butterflies

The Buddhist belief in non-attachment and how it relates to relationships Buddhists believe in non-attachment. Non-attachment means that we let go of our expectations and

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Silver Bullet Swipe

You’re going into the online dating process with what I call the “Silver Bullet Swipe”. So that’s the one thing that you’re like, okay, I

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Date Coaches

Arlene Washburn

My name is Arlene Washburn and I am a Master Executive Certified Matchmaker, and I’m a Science-based Dating and Relationship Coach. I focus on the

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