So why are you here? You’re single. You’re bummed. Let’s think about why you’re frustrated, why you’re stopped. That’s the biggest question, right? Why are you stopped? Because if it’s not you stopping, then you’ve
There’s a certain amount of work that YOU have to do on yourself. I connect with so many people who are just so “over’ dating, and I understand that you come to a matchmaker, for
How do you want to FEEL in your relationship? Don’t tell me what you want physically. How do you want to feel? How do you want your life to be? When you think about your
If you’re not choosing it, why do you think you’re single? A) TIME: I am super busy, I barely make time for myself. B) SELECTION: I’m dating, but I can’t find quality… WHERE are they!?
Before you can complain about your dating life. You need to answer yourself this next question. Do you know what you’re looking for?And don’t just tell me love. What’s that? What’s love. Describe it for
I do want to know if you could paint your ideal situation, what would it look like? And be honest. Are you A? Are you in the camp of honestly, I haven’t thought about it.Are
I have a poll for the audience. How many times have you been rejected? Romantically? And this question is going to be a little different, depending on if you are the asker outer… the wooer,
Now we’re going to talk about perceptions on dates. Guys’ opinions of the girls, girls opinions of the guys, or guys’ opinions of the girls opinions of the guys, or the guys opinions of guys,
What is keeping you from finding a decent date online? And if you’re not online, that’s cool too. But what’s keeping you from finding a decent date period? Is it your circumstances? Is it your
So here’s the tough part for anybody that’s been dating for the last 15 years. Technology has drastically changed, which is a little bit of a mind craze on the dater. It’s a little nuts
Quick poll for all of you. I’m excited about this one, cause I think it’s really telling how people communicate or don’t communicate these days. The question for you guys, what’s the most common way
Is dating easier now or was it easier before the internet? Here’s the thing, guys. I talked to you all day and all day you tell me, I never thought I would be somebody that
It’s just like you date and maybe you meet somebody by chance or algorithm or whatever. And isn’t that a little weird that we leave all of that up to like mystery?! Guys come on.
I mean, I can’t tell you how many gals who are talking to these guys,and I’m like, if he smells fishy at all, video chat! Guys, there is a pandemic and now you really don’t
Why are you doing that? Because you really want the person to like you? Or are you doing it because it aligns with your values? I think the bigger question to ask yourself, in if
Just a little invitation could make the biggest difference in connecting you with the love of your life. Quite literally. When you think about your next relationship, question: who do you want to be? We’re
When you imagine yourself in love? What do you see? And that’s a real question. How do you figure out what you want? Well, a good way is to start with some daydreaming or night
How to Gauge a Person’s Character in Different Contexts When it comes to dating, it is important to gauge a person’s character in different environments and contexts. This means going on context dates, where you
Looking for love can be tough, but it’s definitely not impossible. In this video, we talk about the search for love and how it’s different for everyone. We also offer three tips to help you
What are the Top Ways to Virtual Date? There are many different ways to virtual date. Some of the most popular include online dating websites and apps, virtual reality dating, and video chatting. Each has
When it comes to finding a real connection, many people think that it happens magically, with sparks flying and fireworks going off. However, this isn’t always the case. In fact, for most people, finding a
What defines toxic, is dysfunction as the norm. A toxic relationship is any relationship in which one or both parties are hurt emotionally or physically. While it’s difficult to say exactly how many relationships are
How to Creep Less and Date More Okay, so we all agree that excessive creepiness is not cool, right? Whether it’s online or in-person, nobody wants to be around someone who makes them feel uncomfortable.
How can we end dating double standards once and for all? Do you think there’s a double standard in dating? And of course, I think the natural reaction is that there are double standards everywhere.
The idea of FOMO, I think existed obviously, years before, but it’s been heightened a lot since the internet, because now you see it in real time, what you’re actually missing out on. We’ve all
A lot of you guys are just submitting questions and suggestions and what’s really funny about this season [of Matchmaker Live], literally pun intended… is that we are featuring comedians. And I think a lot
What is your next step? And I want you to ask yourself this question just in general though, like whether you’re dating or not dating or whatever the things are, you haven’t asked yourself what
The thing that bothers me, and I know it bothers you guys about dating is, this stuff is all, very new stuff. Like it was developed and it’s getting developed in the last six months,
You’re still single. It still sucks. And it just seems you were lonelier this year than you were last year, but here’s the reality, aren’t you tired of being the complainer, right?! Aren’t you just
Yeah. So I got into this really out of necessity probably about 15 years ago, actually longer now I’m dating myself, but I was like, the double whammy, I was a nice guy and an
I think the biggest thing that is really annoying about dating is that there’s this stereotype that guys should know exactly what to do all the time. And the idea that they should know what
What are the top three vital, approachable questions in online dating? What was the best thing that happened to you last week? or today? or last year? @janetmore | The Geek Whisperer What are your
When do you recommend that people swap sensitive information on the first date prior to the first date? Depends on how sensitive, sensitive could mean I have herpes, or I’m, divorced or I have kids.
How do you recommend leading with conditional things that, are breakers or not breakers without seeming insensitive. I say you don’t ask anything like that on the first date, because all you want to do
I think people, take that stuff for granted until they realize they really need it. Because society has told us we’re supposed to innately know, but in reality, we’re given all these ways to fall
Obviously we need to be talking about dating, cause wouldn’t we much rather be talking about getting laid! I don’t need to put up a poll for everybody to raise their hand and say, yes.
Tonight we’re talking about dating over 40. Because it seems to get tougher. The older we get and, for those of us who are in our twenties and thirties, there are some places to meet
Hello, everyone out there in the tech-geek-land. My name is Janet More I’m The Geek Whisperer. I’m a dating confidence and connection coach for single men tech. And as you can see here, I am
Get some better pictures! No more boring pictures! Put some flair in there. Okay. No boring pictures just standing there smiling. That’s good to have at least one, but you want to have some more
I’ve seen profiles of men that have every single picture with sunglasses on. We can’t see you. So don’t do it! No sunglasses and no masks in your profile picture, you just don’t need to
Can you see your face? Can you see, what you look like, what you’re doing? If not, then take it out. Just take it out. If you have pictures that have bad lighting, just take
No M-I-A pictures! What does that mean? No missing in action. What do you mean, Janet? What does that mean? Do you know how many pictures I’ve seen of men were their very first picture,
So let’s go from the front. No naked upper body mirror pics. If you want to show off your body, maybe go swimming or go to the lake or jump around outside and show that
Men, don’t want to be dating high-maintenance women? Avoid dating profiles with provocative images. Some dating profile photos are more likely to attract the wrong kind of attention. For women, posting images that show their
If you’re going to be on this planet for another 10 years, you better embrace the fact that technology is going to be the new way you’re doing literally everything. I don’t think people who
Make a plan, make a strategy, we’re not about excuses in this gang You guys tell me I’ve been single for six, seven, eight, nine, 10 years, and you’re doing the same patterns over and
We see it sometimes in matchmaking people are just,” this is what I’m ordering and you’re going to deliver on it”. They are not willing to be part of the process of improvement. If you
Are your dating requirements…reasonable? EXERCISE #1 Since you’re not an objective source, complete these two exercises to make sure your dating expectations are where they should be: STEP 1: Take a piece of paper, fold
If you’re a widow looking for love again, you’re not alone. Here are some tips from the experts to help you find your perfect match. What is hutzpah and why do you need it in
“I think it’s neither one. Many men are just not ready to commit many times. I truly believe my gentleman’s out there, but no one must go through a lot of men that do not
Guys tend to think that if you check enough boxes and you have enough in common, that’s really what it is, but attraction is all psychological. I’m actually working with a client right now that
Alisa Purifico: Hi, who’s this? Member: Hi, how are you? Alisa Purifico: Can see your cute face. So I know you’re a real person? Member: Yeah, sure because I never used app before. Alisa Purifico:
I said to stop thinking. And that sounds crazy, but stop thinking, just stop it. It’s overrated. Just don’t do it! Janet More [Alisa Purifico] In your opinion though. I think this is important because
Tonight we’re talking about dating after divorce. This is a pretty common topic and I’m oddly pumped to talk about this topic because I think it used to have a really crappy stigma. And now
Asking why you’re here is a good place to start. Finding a relationship, finding a decent dating experience starts with developing your introspective skills. That is not something we’re taught in any way, shape or
Alisa Purifico: Nice to meet you. Member: Likewise, thank you for taking this time out. Alisa Purifico: Oh my gosh. Of course. Are those your kiddos behind you on, in the picture Member: Yeah, I
Alisa Purifico: Hi, how are you girl? You’ve got to update Muah, go! Member: I’m talking to one young fellow who is in business for himself. He sells mineral stones and he trades it for
Alisa Purifico: You went from Queens to Brooklyn. Tell me about your love life was the last time you were in love. Member: I actually am divorced. So yeah, I was in love at one
Alisa Purifico: Talk to me, lady what’s going on? Member: The dating has been such a shit show. I can’t even these dudes, and I’m over it . Alisa Purifico: I hear you sister one
Getting into your first relationship and hoping it’s going to be the one that works and it’s the best is literally like, picking up the cello without having any idea how to play the cello
Is it really serving you to be on 20 apps and messaging people for five hours a day? I think it’s so helpful for people to boil these things down into like digestible milestones. Like
Excerpt from Season 1 | Episode 6 Alisa Purifico: What would you say in your opinion are the biggest mistakes that people do when they’re trying to get back out there? I think a lot
What advice do you have for somebody who’s looking to advance a relationship organically? A lot of times on dating apps, singles will say “Oh, I want the guy to make the first move”. Asking
How do you know if somebody authentically is into you or, if they’re showing you the right signals or if it’s something else. First is Intentionality. So if they’re really interested in you, they’re going
If you want to fall in love, you need to be vulnerable. Would you agree? In order to be vulnerable, you have to be relaxed enough to let your guard down. Would you agree with
Why does it feel so difficult to date these days? Part of this is a mindset. And what we know from research about mindset is that if we put out there that we think something’s
The John Cusack moment where he’s holding up the stereo, really f@#$ed up your life. If people haven’t seen that movie “Say Anything”, there’s a scene where John Cusack wants to get the girl back
You have to give her something where she can imagine herself being a part of your life. When you create a profile, you’re really creating sort of a movie trailer version of yourself. That’s going
These tech guys, these “Geeks” they are very thoughtful. They know what they want. They go for it and they do their best When I tell women,I specialize in “single men in tech”, that’s what
If you meet somebody and instantaneously that chemistry is there, and it’s lust and you guys are just like, can’t you keep each other’s hands off of each other? That is not the recipe for
What would you say to women, what should they expect from a guy when they’re talking to somebody new? Obviously there’s some kind of reciprocity there. You messaged first. They messaged back. We have to
The sexiest thing a guy can do is listen and not just listen to like check it off, but listen and apply because it shows us, you have depth. When you have depth, you win.
[Janet More] Guys think there are certain words you’re supposed to say that is supposed to make a difference. And there really isn’t. [Alisa Purifico] What are the big mistakes when dating somebody new, whether
They think that these women have a million options, which, you know, a lot of times they do, but they never stop and go, wait a minute. I have all these same options. I think
Tell me about your dating life. Where are you? I’ve never, I’ve never been good at dating. Nobody is! Don’t feel bad. Nobody is! When I was in my twenties… I didn’t do anything… I
Don’t confuse the things that are shiny, that distract you from the things that really matter to the things that actually do matter. There are definitely things that you should really try to pick up
Don’t tell us what you don’t want. No, thanks. I don’t need to know what you don’t want. It’s funny. When we got these apps, you can tell how long a lot of the girls
The Buddhist belief in non-attachment and how it relates to relationships Buddhists believe in non-attachment. Non-attachment means that we let go of our expectations and instead focus on the present moment. There are a few
In marketing you have to know your avatar, in dating, you have to know… who is your ideal avatar woman? Especially for those who don’t have a ton of experience and they fantasize what their
You’re going into the online dating process with what I call the “Silver Bullet Swipe”. So that’s the one thing that you’re like, okay, I really want someone who seems like they have a stable
This is obvious, but do you appreciate, would you appreciate meeting other singles who were in the same situation you are? I know that sounds a little bit girl scout, but it’s so true. Like
How do you want to FEEL in your relationship? Don’t tell me what you want physically. How do you want to feel? How do you want your life to be? When you think about your
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