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Relationship Roadmap
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Relationship Roadmap

There’s a certain amount of work that YOU have to do on yourself. I connect with so many people who are just so “over’ dating, and I understand that you come to a matchmaker, for

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How Do You Want To Feel?
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How Do You Want To Feel?

How do you want to FEEL in your relationship? Don’t tell me what you want physically. How do you want to feel? How do you want your life to be? When you think about your

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Why Do You Think You Are Single?
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Why Do You Think You Are Single?

If you’re not choosing it, why do you think you’re single? A) TIME: I am super busy, I barely make time for myself. B) SELECTION: I’m dating, but I can’t find quality… WHERE are they!?

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Do You Know What You're Looking For?
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Do You Know What You’re Looking For?

Before you can complain about your dating life. You need to answer yourself this next question. Do you know what you’re looking for?And don’t just tell me love. What’s that? What’s love. Describe it for

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What is your Ideal Situation?
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What is your Ideal Situation?

I do want to know if you could paint your ideal situation, what would it look like? And be honest. Are you A? Are you in the camp of honestly, I haven’t thought about it.Are

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Rejection Poll
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Rejection Poll

I have a poll for the audience. How many times have you been rejected? Romantically? And this question is going to be a little different, depending on if you are the asker outer… the wooer,

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Scary Dating Moments
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Scary Dating Moments

Now we’re going to talk about perceptions on dates. Guys’ opinions of the girls, girls opinions of the guys, or guys’ opinions of the girls opinions of the guys, or the guys opinions of guys,

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What is Keeping You From Finding A Date?
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What is Keeping You From Finding A Date?

What is keeping you from finding a decent date online? And if you’re not online, that’s cool too. But what’s keeping you from finding a decent date period? Is it your circumstances? Is it your

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Why Are You Stopped?
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Why Are You Stopped?

So why are you here? You’re single. You’re bummed. Let’s think about why you’re frustrated, why you’re stopped. That’s the biggest question, right? Why are you stopped? Because if it’s not you stopping, then you’ve

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The Story of Being Single
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The Story of Being Single

So here’s the tough part for anybody that’s been dating for the last 15 years. Technology has drastically changed, which is a little bit of a mind craze on the dater. It’s a little nuts

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The Most Common Let Down
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The Most Common Let Down

Quick poll for all of you. I’m excited about this one, cause I think it’s really telling how people communicate or don’t communicate these days. The question for you guys, what’s the most common way

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Is Dating Easier Now?
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Is Dating Easier Now?

Is dating easier now or was it easier before the internet? Here’s the thing, guys. I talked to you all day and all day you tell me, I never thought I would be somebody that

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Why Are You Dating This Way?
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Why Are You Dating This Way?

It’s just like you date and maybe you meet somebody by chance or algorithm or whatever. And isn’t that a little weird that we leave all of that up to like mystery?! Guys come on.

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First Date Time Saver
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First Date Time Saver

I mean, I can’t tell you how many gals who are talking to these guys,and I’m like, if he smells fishy at all, video chat! Guys, there is a pandemic and now you really don’t

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The Deeper Why
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The Deeper Why

Why are you doing that? Because you really want the person to like you? Or are you doing it because it aligns with your values? I think the bigger question to ask yourself, in if

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What Does Love Look Like?
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What Does Love Look Like?

Just a little invitation could make the biggest difference in connecting you with the love of your life. Quite literally. When you think about your next relationship, question: who do you want to be? We’re

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Imagine Yourself In Love
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Imagine Yourself In Love

When you imagine yourself in love? What do you see? And that’s a real question. How do you figure out what you want? Well, a good way is to start with some daydreaming or night

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The Importance of Context Dates

How to Gauge a Person’s Character in Different Contexts When it comes to dating, it is important to gauge a person’s character in different environments and contexts. This means going on context dates, where you

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What’s Fun about Virtual Dating?

What are the Top Ways to Virtual Date? There are many different ways to virtual date. Some of the most popular include online dating websites and apps, virtual reality dating, and video chatting. Each has

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Stop Toxic Masculinity
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8 types of Toxic Relationships and their Signs.

What defines toxic, is dysfunction as the norm. A toxic relationship is any relationship in which one or both parties are hurt emotionally or physically. While it’s difficult to say exactly how many relationships are

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How to Creep, Less…

How to Creep Less and Date More Okay, so we all agree that excessive creepiness is not cool, right? Whether it’s online or in-person, nobody wants to be around someone who makes them feel uncomfortable.

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Dating Double Standards

How can we end dating double standards once and for all? Do you think there’s a double standard in dating? And of course, I think the natural reaction is that there are double standards everywhere.

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Dating FOMO

The idea of FOMO, I think existed obviously, years before, but it’s been heightened a lot since the internet, because now you see it in real time, what you’re actually missing out on. We’ve all

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Dating with Comedians

A lot of you guys are just submitting questions and suggestions and what’s really funny about this season [of Matchmaker Live], literally pun intended… is that we are featuring comedians. And I think a lot

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Dating Goggles
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Dating Goggles

What is your next step? And I want you to ask yourself this question just in general though, like whether you’re dating or not dating or whatever the things are, you haven’t asked yourself what

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Honesty on the Interner?!
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Honesty on the Internet?!

The thing that bothers me, and I know it bothers you guys about dating is, this stuff is all, very new stuff. Like it was developed and it’s getting developed in the last six months,

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It Still Sucks…

You’re still single. It still sucks. And it just seems you were lonelier this year than you were last year, but here’s the reality, aren’t you tired of being the complainer, right?! Aren’t you just

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The Nice Guy Introvert
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Converting The Nice Guy Introvert

Yeah. So I got into this really out of necessity probably about 15 years ago, actually longer now I’m dating myself, but I was like, the double whammy, I was a nice guy and an

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Waiting Out the Friend Zone
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Waiting Out the Friend Zone

I think the biggest thing that is really annoying about dating is that there’s this stereotype that guys should know exactly what to do all the time. And the idea that they should know what

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Top 3 Approachable Questions
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Top 3 Approachable Questions

What are the top three vital, approachable questions in online dating? What was the best thing that happened to you last week? or today? or last year? @janetmore | The Geek Whisperer What are your

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First Date Q's with Shannon's Circle
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First Date Q’s with Shannon’s Circle

When do you recommend that people swap sensitive information on the first date prior to the first date? Depends on how sensitive, sensitive could mean I have herpes, or I’m, divorced or I have kids.

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Avoiding Awkward
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Avoiding Awkward

How do you recommend leading with conditional things that, are breakers or not breakers without seeming insensitive. I say you don’t ask anything like that on the first date, because all you want to do

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Conversation Starters
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Conversation Starters

I think people, take that stuff for granted until they realize they really need it. Because society has told us we’re supposed to innately know, but in reality, we’re given all these ways to fall

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Meet Elisa Del Castillo
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Meet Elisa Del Castillo

Obviously we need to be talking about dating, cause wouldn’t we much rather be talking about getting laid! I don’t need to put up a poll for everybody to raise their hand and say, yes.

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Dating Over 40
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Dating Over 40

Tonight we’re talking about dating over 40. Because it seems to get tougher. The older we get and, for those of us who are in our twenties and thirties, there are some places to meet

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No Naked Upper Body Selfies
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No Naked Upper Body Selfies

Hello, everyone out there in the tech-geek-land. My name is Janet More I’m The Geek Whisperer. I’m a dating confidence and connection coach for single men tech. And as you can see here, I am

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No Boring Pictures
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No Boring Pictures

Get some better pictures! No more boring pictures! Put some flair in there. Okay. No boring pictures just standing there smiling. That’s good to have at least one, but you want to have some more

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No Sunglasses or Masks!
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No Sunglasses or Masks!

I’ve seen profiles of men that have every single picture with sunglasses on. We can’t see you. So don’t do it! No sunglasses and no masks in your profile picture, you just don’t need to

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Can I See Your Face?

Can you see your face? Can you see, what you look like, what you’re doing? If not, then take it out. Just take it out. If you have pictures that have bad lighting, just take

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No MIA Pictures
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No MIA Pictures

No M-I-A pictures! What does that mean? No missing in action. What do you mean, Janet? What does that mean? Do you know how many pictures I’ve seen of men were their very first picture,

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The Boobie Show-Off

Men, don’t want to be dating high-maintenance women? Avoid dating profiles with provocative images. Some dating profile photos are more likely to attract the wrong kind of attention. For women, posting images that show their

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Proud Internet Dating
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Proud Internet Dating

If you’re going to be on this planet for another 10 years, you better embrace the fact that technology is going to be the new way you’re doing literally everything. I don’t think people who

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Insane Dating Patterns
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Insane Dating Patterns

Make a plan, make a strategy, we’re not about excuses in this gang You guys tell me I’ve been single for six, seven, eight, nine, 10 years, and you’re doing the same patterns over and

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Abundance Breeds Abundance

We see it sometimes in matchmaking people are just,” this is what I’m ordering and you’re going to deliver on it”. They are not willing to be part of the process of improvement. If you

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Dating Wishlists
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Dating Wishlists

Are your dating requirements…reasonable? EXERCISE #1 Since you’re not an objective source, complete these two exercises to make sure your dating expectations are where they should be: STEP 1: Take a piece of paper, fold

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Next Steps for Widows
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Next Steps for Widows

If you’re a widow looking for love again, you’re not alone. Here are some tips from the experts to help you find your perfect match. What is hutzpah and why do you need it in

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Wait, Dating is NOT Easy?!?
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Wait, Dating is NOT Easy?!?

“I think it’s neither one. Many men are just not ready to commit many times. I truly believe my gentleman’s out there, but no one must go through a lot of men that do not

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The Attraction Checklist

Guys tend to think that if you check enough boxes and you have enough in common, that’s really what it is, but attraction is all psychological. I’m actually working with a client right now that

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Getting Over Your Ex
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Getting Over Your Ex

Alisa Purifico: Hi, who’s this? Member: Hi, how are you? Alisa Purifico: Can see your cute face. So I know you’re a real person? Member: Yeah, sure because I never used app before. Alisa Purifico:

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Stop Thinking?!?

I said to stop thinking. And that sounds crazy, but stop thinking, just stop it. It’s overrated. Just don’t do it! Janet More [Alisa Purifico] In your opinion though. I think this is important because

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Dating After Divorce
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Dating After Divorce

Tonight we’re talking about dating after divorce. This is a pretty common topic and I’m oddly pumped to talk about this topic because I think it used to have a really crappy stigma. And now

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Start-Asking-Why
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Start Asking Why?

Asking why you’re here is a good place to start. Finding a relationship, finding a decent dating experience starts with developing your introspective skills. That is not something we’re taught in any way, shape or

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Single with Kids
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Single with Kids

Alisa Purifico: Nice to meet you. Member: Likewise, thank you for taking this time out. Alisa Purifico: Oh my gosh. Of course. Are those your kiddos behind you on, in the picture Member: Yeah, I

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Exposing Fake Profiles

Alisa Purifico: Hi, how are you girl? You’ve got to update Muah, go! Member: I’m talking to one young fellow who is in business for himself. He sells mineral stones and he trades it for

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How to Meet Locals
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How to Meet Locals

Alisa Purifico: You went from Queens to Brooklyn. Tell me about your love life was the last time you were in love. Member: I actually am divorced. So yeah, I was in love at one

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Her Top 10 Wish List
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Her Top 10 Wish List

Alisa Purifico: Talk to me, lady what’s going on? Member: The dating has been such a shit show. I can’t even these dudes, and I’m over it . Alisa Purifico: I hear you sister one

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FAIL means “First Attempt in Learning”
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When is Failure Expected?

Getting into your first relationship and hoping it’s going to be the one that works and it’s the best is literally like, picking up the cello without having any idea how to play the cello

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Celebrating the Little Wins
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Celebrating the Little Wins

Is it really serving you to be on 20 apps and messaging people for five hours a day? I think it’s so helpful for people to boil these things down into like digestible milestones. Like

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Biggest Dating Mistakes
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Biggest Dating Mistakes

Excerpt from Season 1 | Episode 6 Alisa Purifico: What would you say in your opinion are the biggest mistakes that people do when they’re trying to get back out there? I think a lot

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How to Move Things Along

What advice do you have for somebody who’s looking to advance a relationship organically? A lot of times on dating apps, singles will say “Oh, I want the guy to make the first move”. Asking

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How to Know if Someone is IN to YOU

How do you know if somebody authentically is into you or, if they’re showing you the right signals or if it’s something else. First is Intentionality. So if they’re really interested in you, they’re going

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Sparks Circle
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Not Feeling that Spark?

If you want to fall in love, you need to be vulnerable. Would you agree? In order to be vulnerable, you have to be relaxed enough to let your guard down. Would you agree with

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Why Does it Feel So Difficult to Date?

Why does it feel so difficult to date these days? Part of this is a mindset. And what we know from research about mindset is that if we put out there that we think something’s

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Cusack’s Stereo Effect

The John Cusack moment where he’s holding up the stereo, really f@#$ed up your life. If people haven’t seen that movie “Say Anything”, there’s a scene where John Cusack wants to get the girl back

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Movie Popcorn
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Your Movie Trailer Self

You have to give her something where she can imagine herself being a part of your life. When you create a profile, you’re really creating sort of a movie trailer version of yourself. That’s going

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Single Men in Tech
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Single Men in Tech

These tech guys, these “Geeks” they are very thoughtful. They know what they want. They go for it and they do their best When I tell women,I specialize in “single men in tech”, that’s what

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Slow Burn Relationships
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The Slow Burn Relationship

If you meet somebody and instantaneously that chemistry is there, and it’s lust and you guys are just like, can’t you keep each other’s hands off of each other? That is not the recipe for

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Setting Expectations in Dating
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Communicating Expectations

What would you say to women, what should they expect from a guy when they’re talking to somebody new? Obviously there’s some kind of reciprocity there. You messaged first. They messaged back. We have to

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Listening is Sexy
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Listening is Sexy

The sexiest thing a guy can do is listen and not just listen to like check it off, but listen and apply because it shows us, you have depth. When you have depth, you win.

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Freezing vs Listening

[Janet More] Guys think there are certain words you’re supposed to say that is supposed to make a difference. And there really isn’t. [Alisa Purifico] What are the big mistakes when dating somebody new, whether

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Expanding Your Options
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Expanding Your Options

They think that these women have a million options, which, you know, a lot of times they do, but they never stop and go, wait a minute. I have all these same options. I think

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Dating Profiles for Dudes

Tell me about your dating life. Where are you? I’ve never, I’ve never been good at dating. Nobody is! Don’t feel bad. Nobody is! When I was in my twenties… I didn’t do anything… I

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Defining What Matters

Don’t confuse the things that are shiny, that distract you from the things that really matter to the things that actually do matter. There are definitely things that you should really try to pick up

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Top Online Dating Mistakes

Don’t tell us what you don’t want. No, thanks. I don’t need to know what you don’t want. It’s funny. When we got these apps, you can tell how long a lot of the girls

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It’s Not Always Butterflies

The Buddhist belief in non-attachment and how it relates to relationships Buddhists believe in non-attachment. Non-attachment means that we let go of our expectations and instead focus on the present moment. There are a few

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Find Your Dating Avatar

In marketing you have to know your avatar, in dating, you have to know… who is your ideal avatar woman? Especially for those who don’t have a ton of experience and they fantasize what their

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Silver Bullet Swipe

You’re going into the online dating process with what I call the “Silver Bullet Swipe”. So that’s the one thing that you’re like, okay, I really want someone who seems like they have a stable

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Researching Getting Laid

This is obvious, but do you appreciate, would you appreciate meeting other singles who were in the same situation you are? I know that sounds a little bit girl scout, but it’s so true. Like

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How Do You Want to Feel?

How do you want to FEEL in your relationship? Don’t tell me what you want physically. How do you want to feel? How do you want your life to be? When you think about your

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impress your Facetime or Zoom Date
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4 Ways to Impress Your Facetime or Zoom Date

The covid-19 pandemic has posed a host of unprecedented challenges to mankind. When push comes to shove, we usually come up with out of box solutions for such challenges. Covid-19 has also altered our patterns

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5 Smart ideas for long-distance couples during Coronavirus

The Coronavirus pandemic has brought fear and uncertainty in our lives. The emotional and financial setback of the Covid-19 pandemic is insurmountable. The rising number of infections, deaths, and severely attenuated financial circumstances have brought

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5 Smart Ways To Get Over a Breakup Fast

For many years I have helped people get over breakups through my matchmaker and love coach platform. At Matchmakerreview.com, we have many professionals that are ready to give you crucial relationship advice including how to

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A Day In The Life Of A Matchmaker

What do you think happens in the daily life of a Matchmaker? Well today you can find out and follow Alisa on her journey stopping random cute strangers on the street and asking if they

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Alisa Helps Landon Clements and Johnny Bananas

Ya know what is great about Matchmaker Review? Well… first is all of our professional matchmaker and dating coaches that love helping people. Second… well not really second, but it is that our very own

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Finding A Soulmate In 48 Hours???

Did you know our very own Alisa Purifico was in a Buzzfeed Video trying to help Aria to track down his soulmate in under 48 hours… but do soulmates even exist?

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Slow Relationships
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5 Signs Your Relationship Is Moving Too Slow

When you embark on a new relationship with someone, it is natural to have positive feelings for your new-found partner. But regardless of whether your relationship is moving towards a long term commitment or not,

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